Shipping & Returns


Due to the made-to-order nature of our products, all orders take ~2 business days to fulfill before shipping.

Domestic Shipping


  • All Candles & Birthdate Book
    • 2 day shipping via USPS or Fedex based on zip code
  • Jewelry
    • 2-3 days shipping via USPS  
  • Express Shipping
    • Fedex Overnight shipping available at checkout for all US orders.

International Shipping


  • Birthdate Candles
    • 2-4 day shipping via UPS Canada
  • All other Candles, Jewelry, & Birthdate Book
    • 5 day shipping via Fedex

United Kingdom

  • Birthdate Candles
    • 2 day shipping via Royal Mail
  • All Other Candles, Jewelry, & Birthdate Book
    • 5 day shipping via Fedex  

All other international locations

  • All Candles, Jewelry, & Birthdate Book
    • 5-15 days shipping via Fedex 

Returns and Exchanges

Please reach out to for return and exchange requests.

Returns and Exchanges Policy


In the USA, we can only take returns or exchanges for unburned candles still in their original state. But we want you to be happy with your order — please reach out to if you have any issues. 

For Australia orders, we are currently not accepting returns due to the distance and time of transit. However, we will always find a way help you if you reach us at

NOTE: Someone from our team will respond to you within 48 hours. Please check your junk/spam folder if you do not receive an email back from us shortly after reaching out.

*Return shipping costs not covered by Birthdate Co.*


Birthdate Books

Unfortunately, since each book is personalized to each individual, we are unable to accept returns or offer exchanges

Birthstone Rings

We cover the cost of return shipping for size exchanges within 30 days of purchase. Email us at to start an exchange.

Birthdate Pendants

Pendants with engraving will not be accepted for returns. Returns and exchanges are to be sent back in their original packaging, with both the pendant and chain. Please email our team for assistance.